Perverted Behaviors You Need To Curb
For a guy to have a strong sexual appetite is human nature. In a nutshell men are, at heart, huge perverts. It's become very acceptable to admit. Men know this about themselves and see little reason to change, Many times women get a little freaked out by what some men find turns them on.
While you might think your sexual appetite is completely normal, your partner might have a hard time getting past the fact that you have such a seemingly one track mind when it comes to your relationship. If it's early in the relationship, she might find your perverted behaviors all too much to handle and think you're a player with only one thing on his mind. Following are some behaviours you might want to keep in check.
Suggesting sex while you're at her parents’ place.
Forbidden nookie can be the best kind of sexy. Fororbidden means anywhere it wouldn't be good to get caught. Perhaps an elevator, a quickie in a public bathroom or her parents’ house while visiting for a long weekend. It's quite okay to suggest it, but to her it might seem a little bit of a turn-off that you want to do the nasty when her parents are so close by. She might assume you're a sicko with a fantasy about getting caught by her parents. Whatever your reason, no matter how innocent, she probably won't be able to get in the groove knowing her mom and dad are merely a wall away. Of course, if she suggests it, then maybe the pervert in the relationship isn't you. You should most definitely take her up on the suggestion.
Constantly stroking the salami.
No question about it. A man has got to do what a man has to do. Sometimes it's a solo performance. Even when he is getting sex on a consistent basis, a guy still has to relieve a little of his extra sexual energy, and once a day should really be enough. If you're getting sex on the regular and still masturbating two to three times a day, it’s a sign you might have a couple issues that run quite a bit deeper than just plain old horniness. If she finds out you're still masturbating so often, then she is going to think that she isn't doing a good enough job as your partner. There is a strong possibility that she will be concerned about your maturity level and possibly some emotional issues from your past. Both of these circumstances will definitely not appeal to her. Try to keep your playing of the skin flute to a minimum. Also, try to be discreet. Try not to get caught: she might never let you live it down.
Keeping a porn folder hidden on your computer.
Porn is everywhere. It's all over the net. Try googling "tits" just once. It will reveal thousands of pictures. Nobody should feel the need to keep porn saved on there hard drive anymore, it's so readily accessible. So dump your hidden stash of porn on your computer. If you're into kink or something illegal, you don't want her to find it while she's on your computer someday. If she does discover it, she is going to think that you need to look at dirty pictures so badly that you can't even wait for the couple of seconds while the search engine does its job or again, that's you're not satisfied by her and her affections. One word...DELETE.
Sending her photos of your favourite plaything.
Sexting is the new phone sex, randomly placed explicit pic sent via text at any time of the day. It's actually not a bad thing at all. It can work wonders on keeping the relationship exciting because it proves you’re still attracted to her and think about her in a dirty way during the day or late at night when she isn't around. The part that isn't acceptable is randomly sending pics of your penis while she is in the middle of a sales meeting or grabbing lunch with her mom or a co-worker. You need to be aware that discretion is important and realize that you never know who might be around and looking over her shoulder while she checks her message. Plus, have you really taken a good look at the male anatomy? It's not easy to look at and then enjoy the rest of your hotdog.
Public inappropriate touching.
Whether it's a quick pinch of the butt or a nibble of the neck: there are more than a few moves you can make in public to get her a little aroused and keep the relationship sexual and playful. There are, however, some places on her body that you should never touch in public -- no matter how few eyes are watching at the moment. If you can't keep your hands off of her in public, she will think you don't know how to behave in any situation and might wonder if in fact you have any boundaries. It may get her to thinking that you've done this many times before with many other women. Or if you're willing to cop a feel in a crowded mall, who says you won't do it at some inappropriate time or special function. PDA's are cool, but keep within some acceptable guidelines.
Asking her to provide details about her past sexual relationships.
There's no reason that couples can't talk about their pasts, especially where past relationships and sex are involved. It's quite alright because talking about the sexual past is a way to find out the likes and dislikes of your partner. It’s also usually a good indicator of which sexual acts are up for discussion and which are completely off limits. It's natural that you'd ask about her sexual portfolio. Just be cautious and don't seem too interested. You really don't need to know every graphic detail and all the dirt. She might feel like you’re less interested in her as a serious sexual partner and more as a sexual fantasy. No woman wants to feel like they are merely a plaything; most want to feel important, respected and cared for.
Frequenting strip clubs and massage parlours.
There may be occasions when men find themselves in a strip club: bachelor parties or trips with a boss/clients or the guys from work who want to put a lousy work week behind them. Most women will understand that it's sometimes a thing that guys do. She doesn't understand why it's something you always have to do, especially if it's frequently. If your night always ends by watching a half-naked woman romp on a pole, she is going to think there is more going on than normal guy fun. Even if it rarely happens, she may be concerned, after all a guy can go home with a stripper without any difficulty whatsoever. She is going to think you're looking for a little more than just a lap dance or a massage. Speaking of massage parlours, if you want a happy relationship, they would be a no-no. If you are in need of a massage for therapeutic reasons; there are legitimate masseuses who will provide you with those benefits. If you want to legitimately "go around the world", you can buy yourself an airline ticket; not a cheap thrill with a masseuse.
Making sexual jokes about her friends.
Within all jokes there will always be some element of the truth. It's fine to joke with or about her friends, but when you make sexual jokes about them, it's guaranteed to set off warning sirens in her head. Why? Because it means you picture her friends in a sexual way, even if you're only making a joke. It's taboo to think, speak to,look at or acknowledge her friends in a sexual capacity. There will be no correct answer when you are confronted with the obvious; you will be trapped. Stay within the acceptable, friend-like terms.
Filming her having sex with you without her knowing.
Couples having sex on a cam is becoming more acceptable by the day. It can be a fun activity to add some spice to the relationship. Women tend to be a little more cautious for one major reason. What if the relationship doesn't work out. What will happen to that piece of tape when or if you break up. Will it become the movie that the boys watch when they get together for a laugh or worse yet, it could end up on the world wide web for a larger audience. If you suggest it and she says no; respect her wishes. Drop the stalker routine and do not consider filming her without her knowledge or permission.