Men genetically are programmed to hunt. If a man is interested in you, he will call and not be easily put off. Don't make excuses like "I did not return his call in time", or "must have missed the phone call" or " I gave off the wrong signals". If he is interested he will keep trying. Nothing ever stopped a man from reaching out for a woman he truly wants or He is just not into you.

If it is always you calling and dropping by and he is open to spending sometime with you or even getting sexual; that is the genetic make up of the male race. He figures that you understand the score. He's not the one initiating the contact, so it is just a friendship with or without benefits. So don't get confused. If you are doing all the work in the relationship/friendship, don't go there. It will never last even if you do start a relationship - it will be short lived. He is just not that into you.

The Man Who Is Around when it is only convenient for him - we all know a guy like this. He is there and then he is too busy, work, school, golf….. He is available and then he is gone. He calls and shows up but then time goes by and tons of excuses why he cannot make it. This man to whom you are an afterthought. He is just not that into you.

The Great Guy who is your best friend and talks and hangs out with you nearly everyday but always goes out with his friends on weekends and parties without you. He cares for you so much that he does not want to lead you on as he is not ready to commit to a relationship and cannot stand the idea of losing you. After all you are his best friend and rock. It is a man's way of not hurting you and saying He is just not that into you.

If he is a womanizer and hits on every woman in the bar while he is with you, checks out women in every car while you are driving or any woman wherever you are. Stay away - they rarely change. He is just not that into you.

The man who never returns your calls, e-mails or text messages but calls when he wants sex.You are just a "Booty Call". He is just not that into you.

Don't waste your time waiting around for the guy. He is just not that into you.

Mr. Right will come if you are there and not waiting around for the guy who is just not into you.