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We know that life can sometimes be very challenging. We are here to offer suggestions on how to cope or get your life back on track in a way that can be positive and rewarding. Frequently in life, we find ourselves just a little too close to the fire to see things from an objective point of view. We know that sometimes you have difficult situtation that's hard to talk about with friends or family members; but we're here to listen. You are not alone.

Question : when my husband job has their christmas party the wife and girlfriend is not invited. They christmas party is held at the foxwood casino and we are told not to come by the casino. no female work at the job its all guys. they all leave for the casino ..

Answer : Hiring a detective will probably only serve to squander money unless you know someone who is extremely reliable. It's also tough to know what goes on amongst a staff of all men. It's very likely that if anything is going on, they'll cover for one ano..... 

Question : My BF broke up with me cause he hated to argue, ran away from anything that upset him, and had the nerve to leave me after the 3rd time i got mad at him, within our 1yr relationship. WTF??? He ignores all communication from me.

Answer : It will be hard to hear this now, but he probably did you a big favour in the long run. Imagine being married or parenting with someone that can't handle a little conflict and see it through to a resolution. You're better off at this point knowing th..... 

Question : Dear Team - I've been having some problems with my girlfriend of 5 years. She is currently raising two troubled teenagers and I've tried to be extra patient with our relationship due to this however I'm continually feeling left out of the "partnershi..

Answer : No-one should feel the way you do in a shared partnership. With as many concerns or problems that you are experiencing, the last thing you should do is to feel forced into a marriage. It's time to make a hard decision. Talk to her and tell her that s..... 

Question : Me & my boyfriend have been together for 1 year & half. & Whenever we have intense arguemnets he says "I cheated on you every chance i got" and he starts to name all these girls names. He used to be a big player till we got together,there all his ex'..

Answer : Whether what he says is a childish way of getting back at you or actually the truth; the end result is the same. The hurt and damage to your relationship will be eroded by it. If someone can lash out at you with hurtful things like this on a repeated..... 

Question : I have one child,a daughter who I raised by myself. I love her with all my heart. She got a felony for bad check writing and stealing when she was 18. I have tried to do many things for her but nothing is ever good enough, I signed for a loan for her..

Answer : A single parent's road is never easy and it's a life of much sacrifice and often many tears and frustrations. You deserve a pat on the back for obviously "going to the mat" for your young lady. Unfortunately, sometimes our children don't truly apprec..... 

Question : I've been dating my boyfriend for 19 months now, for the most part we've been extremely happy and I love him with all my heart. About a month about I found out he cheated on me five months ago with one of my "best" friends, all they did was make out,..

Answer : One of the hardest questions to answer is "will he cheat again". What you have to ask yourself is whether or not you can handle it if he does in fact do it again. Unfortunately, only you can know the ins and outs of your relationship well enough to m..... 

Question : I like this guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me as well...but I don't know how to take the next step (that next step being a relationship), how can I hint this? or would he say no if I asked him out? and how would I do that especially if your a shy p..

Answer : No need to be shy, love is sometimes about taking a chance on something that could be great. Try inviting him for lunch together or maybe a movie out as a group of friends if you're nervous. I'm guessing you're already watching his signals and assumi..... 

Question : My ex is threatening to post my phone number on 4chan and craigslist along with pictures I sent him. I have this all on text messages what shall I do?

Answer : You have not divulged what country you live in; different countries have different laws regarding privacy and distribution of such photos. Many lawyers, however, offer their services at a fair price for consultation on such matters. From your message..... 

Question : My husband spends hours on end playing a online game all the while talking to a women who plays the game. Its gotten so bad that he doesn't come to bed for hours after ive gone. Recently I was looking at his account history and found that he's callin..

Answer : Your gut instincts are bang-on! Infidelity doesn't actually have to be flesh-on-flesh. There's a growing problem with online and emotional infidelity. Social networking sites are a prime problem area. A big tip-off is his defense mechanism that kick..... 

Question : Do all narcissists cheat? My ex was an extreme narcissist and he was a serial cheater. He'd deny it and tell me I was crazy. But then other times he would brag about a conquest to me, if you can imagine that! He loved to live for the thrill of it and..

Answer : Very likely the tendency is higher for a narcissist of either sex to cheat in their relationships. Probably because an extreme narcissist will almost always put their own needs over the needs of their spouse or partner. They need to get something bac..... 

Question : I had posted something on here that I had all proof to back me up on. i never posted any pics or numbers or addresses etc but I did post the first and last names of the people I caught my ex with he contacted me saying that in doing that, that is con..

Answer : The definition of slander is as follows: The action or crime of making a false spoken statement damaging to a person's reputation. The key word here is "false". Your accuser needs to check the dictionary. Slander is, in fact, the verbal word; Libel i..... 

Question : I refer to slander against my said name, and therefore wish to have this link removed http://www.cheateralert.com/busted-details.aspx?bid=244 I cant believe this is legal I have forwarded to my attorneys. I also request an email address for c..

Answer : You may feel free to contact Cheateralert directly through the "contact us" link displayed at the bottom of the home page. We appreciate your thoughts and concerns, the legal terms of Cheateralert.com stipulate that all users must be factual when..... 

Question : Hello, I found my name posted on this site! Its completely false information, regardless I want it removed immediately or i will take legal action. Im offended someone is able to just post anything about anyone on your site with no regard. This is..

Answer : We appreciate your thoughts and concerns, the legal terms of Cheateralert.com stipulate that all users must be factual when placing their "bust" on the site. If in fact there are portions of this bust that are not factual or you've been unfairly trea..... 


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